Where I Am At

NiBBler

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I want to tell you a little about myself, for real. I am a single mom of three children. I separated from my husband two years ago. It has been a hard two years but not because I no longer had a man around. That was a blessing. It was a struggle mostly because of my children and my finances. Things are now settling down in both areas. My children have adjusted and I am now able to take care of us financially with or without the ex's support. I am a strong woman.

I wake up each morning with peace and go to sleep each night snuggled with contentment. I live each day with the knowledge that I am who I want to be and if there comes a time when I am not then it would only be my fault. I will never depend on someone else to make me happy as I did in the past. I will only depend upon myself.

On the occasion that I want the company of a man... then I spend time with one. When I am done with him, I send him away. I would not have it any other way at this point of my life. I want to be alone. I am not desperate.
 

NiBBler

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What did I do ?

I must know, to make it right !

My prime directive in life is to avoid upsetting anyone.
You called me desperate and sad. Just because I am not in a relationship by choice does not make me desperate. It makes me free to do as I damn well please.

28/12/2008 18:01 Cranium : Yeah, lies to others feel great, lies to oneself are a sign of desperation.

28/12/2008 18:00 nwbeg4me : *out there

28/12/2008 18:00 nwbeg4me : nah.. he's out. It's fun looking for him anyway

28/12/2008 17:57 Cranium : I guess you will be alone till the day you die waiting for Mr. 24/7. Sad really.
 

Scarlet

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I agree with nwbeg4me.
Just because a woman chooses not to have a steady man in her life doesn't make her desperate or sad....it makes her SMART!!!
 

Unhappy Camper

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You called me desperate and sad. Just because I am not in a relationship by choice does not make me desperate. It makes me free to do as I damn well please.

28/12/2008 18:01 Cranium : Yeah, lies to others feel great, lies to oneself are a sign of desperation.

28/12/2008 18:00 nwbeg4me : *out there

28/12/2008 18:00 nwbeg4me : nah.. he's out. It's fun looking for him anyway

28/12/2008 17:57 Cranium : I guess you will be alone till the day you die waiting for Mr. 24/7. Sad really.

Ahh I see.

And YOU alluding to ME having an abnormality because I readily admit to not being a 24/7 dude is A-ok I suppose.

Oh the inequality.



 

NiBBler

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Ahh I see.

And YOU alluding to ME having an abnormality because I readily admit to not being a 24/7 dude is A-ok I suppose.

Oh the inequality.
I'm sorry if you took what I said as something against your abilities to go 24/7. I meant it as a joke that she NEEDED a vacation because you wore her out.

*sigh* This was just a sad misunderstanding because we are unable to communicate more intimately.
 

Zollo

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I'm sorry if you took what I said as something against your abilities to go 24/7. I meant it as a joke that she NEEDED a vacation because you wore her out.

*sigh* This was just a sad misunderstanding because we are unable to communicate more intimately.
Blah, Blah, Blah... Pussy... Stick to your guns, big tuff independant woman.... Blah, Blah:yociexpress09: